Imagine that you’re living life in the space you desire to be mentally and emotionally

Envision your ideal emotional, mental, physical, spiritual and financial self and DECIDE that from now on, this is who you are.

Of course you’re a bit flawed and you will make mistakes here and there. Don’t worry, it’s all part of your transformation journey.

The L’s are not losses, but lessons.

No champion started winning from infantry: they trained to be who they are today.

That’s what you are going to do from now onward too: you’re going to be intentional about becoming your ideal you.

What does that look like? It means:

• You’re going to study to become her or him.
  

• You’re going to start to think like her or him.
  

• You’re going to make decisions like her or him.

• You’re also going to change your circle + environment in support of realizing your vision of your ideal you.
  

• Then, you’re going to remember to honor your authentic self in the journey. Because you know that your authenticity is what makes unique and it serves a purpose.
  

• You’ll only be 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘥 by others, you’ll not copy them.

• You will also give yourself grace, because you remember Rome wasn’t built in a day - so you know not to hold yourself to unrealistic standards or expectations.

• Life is a journey. Please do not spoil your experience by comparing your life to that of others or by letting people that don’t have nor understand your vision influence your decisions and seeking validation from the same people.

  If you do, you’ll only create internal conflict.

You are not stupid! God wired you as an intelligent being - you have the capacity to be in charge and create your ideal life, so go for it!🥰

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