Stop craving validation all the time. You need no supervision!

The systems we were brought up in has made us afraid to go on adventures, to take a leap of faith, to go against the status quo’s and to need validation from everybody and it’s SAD.

And why? This is YOUR life.

Learn to trust your own judgement a little more.

Dare to be ✨self sufficient✨.

And be a little more comfortable with saying NO sometimes.

That looks like:

🙅🏾‍♀️No, I don’t need anyone’s validation. I like the idea, because it serves ME in “so and so” way, so I’m following through with it.

🙅🏾‍♀️ No, I don’t need anyone’s approval. I’ve considered this plan very well, weighed the pros against the cons (or it just feels right) and I’ve decided to follow through with it.

🙅🏾‍♀️No, I don’t need to have an opinion or stance everyone agrees with.

🙅🏾‍♀️No, I don’t need to be liked by everyone.

🙅🏾‍♀️No, I can’t be the hero in everyone’s story, neither do I have to be.

Especially the last one is VERY important for your own sanity - mental health.

When you master saying no to people (even to yourself when you’re going overboard again) without getting overall anxiety, fear of rejection or fear to disappoint people - you’ve gained back control over your life + inner peace.

An invaluable gift many seek and struggle to find.

So when you lay hold on tools to get it, hold it with both hands🩵.

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