Self-love: why it is not selfish but rather responsible

4/16/20254 min read

Self-love: why it is not selfish but rather responsible

Because the best version of you — the one that walks in their highest potential — does NOT benefit from you being all over the place, drained, high and dry.

You NEED to know your limits and you HAVE to set boundaries.

Allow yourself to slow down when you’re getting the signs that it’s time for it.

You’ll start to have more peace of mind, clarity and suddenly things start making sense.

Pieces start falling into place. Little by little, (your) life will start to make sense to you.

This is a snippet of the live session I had with my community and our topic was “the courage to leave (toxic) people and environments you have outgrown”.

Empowering you to allow things to end and walk away when people, places, situations don’t serve you and the life you aspire to have/person you are working on becoming anymore.

Because that’s ok! It’s life.

It was such a beautiful conversation🤍.

By the 100th person joining the release wait list, I’m making the ebook with the whole message + step by step guide available.
Leave me your email on my website if you want to be the first to have access to the ebook once it releases. You can find the link on my profile 💫.

If you can’t wait and you want to starve your urge to feed your mind with digestible yet highly impactful knowledge to grow stronger and deeper in your your journey of becoming, then get my ebook “overcoming the fear of confrontation”.

You’ll know exactly:

+ how to get out of the habit of shrinking yourself and neglecting your feelings

+ how to build your sense of self worth and self esteem to express yourself CONFIDENTLY, with grace and class

+ how to be BOLD TO TAKE THE LEAD and make your experiences with the people/relationships satisfactory, fulfilling, aligning with your deep heart desires of having inner joy and peace of mind —instead of settling with whatever life and its people throws at you 🙅🏾‍♀️.

It’s time for a change, it’s time for action.

Comment “INNER JOY” and I’ll dm you where you can get it 🥰

Congratulations in advance on your transformation!
I am proud of you for finally choosing YOU! 💐👏🏾

Lovely to
meet you!

Hi, my name is Nyah. I am an emotional resilience and inner joy coach. I guide people who feel stuck in the habit of shrinking themselves to accommodate others to reinvent their lives and change their story by discovering their authentic self (who you are in their soul), building confidence to show up as their true self unapologetically, as well as structuring their lives and relationships in such a way that having peace of mind, harmony and inner joy is a more constant experience.

Beautiful how our paths crossed this way! :)

I have a passion for putting people in their strength and I share about insights I have gained in my journey as a person with a big heart, navigating finding balance between being caring and understanding and knowing when to put your foot down for what matters to YOU so that selfish, inconsiderate people don't use your kindness as an avenue to exploit and disrespect you.

It's all about balance.

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I go live on TikTok regularly for self-love check ins with my community and have conversations on shifting your experience in your circle/relationships to be more fulfilling and aligned with the harmony and peace of mind you desire.

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